sources from our 2014 holiday house walk

good morning!

first off, i want to thank you for stopping by and sharing your time and love with us
like seriously, it made me smile from ear to ear and if i am being totally honest i am crying my eyes out reading all of your sweet comments

  i could never just be a home decor person..the heart’s journey has always taken
precedence over anything else.  however, i am noticing now that i am almost an empty nester
and nearing 50 that i intentionally enjoy creating a cozy environment for us.

if you haven’t taken the tour of the homes yet, you MUST start at the beginning

i want to give God the offering of JOY and peace…it all goes to Him, seriously..i wouldn’t be here in this place today
without His grace and mercy

 today i want to share some of the sources for our home since so many of you asked

2014 Holiday Housewalk - House of Belonging

these mugs are my favorite.  i first saw them over at my friend lissa’s house.  i love her heart.  she is a kindred spirit and God is weaving our hearts together in a way
only God can right girl?  love you.  they are ray dun’s creation and we purchased ours through sterling place

nut bowls from anthropologie - i couldn’t find them online when i looked:/

 the LOVE letters we got at hobby lobby at 50% off


the rug we got at 75% off. at RUGS USA we have been eyeing it since last year
our carpet is old and this cozy’s it up until we can replace it with hardwood later


this is the third years we’ve enjoyed our Names of God garland from sweet sasha.

we thrifted our barn doors & vintage gold frame this summer down in the Ozarks

the words on the sign are from the movie Elf

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

we will have information on our signs on our instagram soon;)


our pottery barn 2014 ornament is precious to me.  it is a memorial to God’s faithfulness and provision.
this has been a crazy hard year on so many levels and in so many ways
( i didn’t see the white one only the gold one )


ok..this has to be one of my favorite places.  grace’s room.
i was instantly in love with these pillowcases.  you can buy yourself a pair from two little bugs clothing..super cute!

 my girl aedriel.  so much to say about her.
God brought us together for sure.
she designed a collection of signs for us this summer and we have been so blessed
by her and know you all have too:)  you can find her signs in our Etsy shop under Aedriel.
the angel wings are from decor steals last year
we turned them over to the backside rather than the white metal side.
the sweet crocheted stars are from alice remembers etsy shop


the throw is from anthropologie.  a total splurge.  no excuse.
i must confess that the creamy one is on my christmas list too….

stay tuned to our IG feed for more information on our sign shop…xo


the pillow is from sugar boo.  love love it!
the chandelier is a DIY project we shared over at jenniferrizzo’s

the bedskirt…lots of you asked about that.  my mom made it and it is my favorite.  her Etsy shop is here.
i know she is busy and her turnaround is long but it is well worth the wait because you cannot find redshifts like this in stores:)

ok…did i cover everything?  if not, check out our instagram and ask me there
that is where you will find me everyday:)

love ya’ll!  friday i have a few of my favorite things to share with you along with an update on my health and surgeries



Rachel - Thanks for sharing Tiff! Luckily, I was able to pick up the Anthro bowls this weekend. Your house and Christmas decorations are warm and cozy. You did a beautiful job!

lissa - yes girl! our hearts are woven together for sure and I believe it’s for a purpose!

Debra - Just wanted to thank you for your latest post with all the “where to find” links for your wonderful holiday décor choices. I had guessed the sweet filigree enhanced bowls were from Anthro and was able to not only find them, but also the plate you featured in your previous cookie post, I loved too. It was their last one. Just a little treat while having a girls holiday lunch out. They will be a cute addition to my growing ironstone collection. I have purchased some of their fun plates before. I confess, I did play Sherlock on those wonderful embossed white mugs and low and behold, found them. Oh, the power of the internet. Can’t wait for your up and coming series to unfold in January. Holiday Blessings once again Tiff.

Suzanne - What a beautiful
refuge and reflection
of your heart….

Merry Christmas!

xo Suzanne

Briana - Hello! I love your house! I am a newly wed and my husband and I have minimal furniture and home decor. I hope that some day my house can look like yours! Right now I am working towards furnishing and decorating my bedroom. I love love love your headboard and was wondering where you got it or how you made it?! Thanks!

Becoming|the unfolding of YOU {FREE STUDY STARTING IN JANUARY}


i have held a dream in my heart since i was a little girl watching my grandpa write on yellow legal notepads.
sneaking into his closet deciphering his handwriting amongst a stack of notepads as almost as big as i was

i have wanted to write.  to tell a story.

this writing hangs over me like a dark cloud.  i still can’t pinpoint what “it is” exactly or what it will look like even


years flew by and i spent well over a decade in the wilderness. a wasteland i now believe created to translate what i knew in my head but
didn’t know “how-to” in my life.
maybe for me to build trust and endurance?
occasionally, i could hear God on the sidelines saying, “all of this is for a purpose”
“I am doing something new that you wouldn’t believe even if i told you”

but the pain was numbing and i couldn’t receive anymore than i could give


i was broken in my mess and i needed to be restored before i could help others

i remember reading

that you cannot teach what you do not know

when i received the email from jeanne ( i love this friend so much )
i ran for the comfort of
i can’t speak
i will feel and look stupid
i won’t make sense
blah blah blah…

you can read her heart behind the study HERE

fears keep us safe but they also keep us from doing what we were born to do

long story short i said yes
and felt terrified ever since
i may chicken out…(wink)
but i know it is a God gift
and if i said no it would be selfish because it doesn’t only depend on me

God promises says to me

Don’t be afraid, for the I will go before you and will be with you; I will not fail nor forsake you.”
Deuteronomy 31:8

i am learning that each step of the journey i am given the choice to step through invisible walls of fears and leave what is comfortable
i feel like i have lived most of my life under water.   i could see light but i was dying a slow death
my obstacles were my deepest fears
my hands were raw and bleeding from trying to hang onto the rope of my life the way i saw it
the fairytale i so desperately tried to create
was dying and i felt i was dying right along with it
maybe i was…

but God had a whole different fairy-tale He was preparing me for

i didn’t know it but God did, that my knight in shining armor was not my husband or any man for that matter
it was a love-story between Him & i

and i can’t wait to share a little piece of my story with you

YOU and i have to live the life we were born to live…

-the sound of music


This January 6, 2015  join 21 women for an 8 week study all about finding your true identity in Christ.

Each week you will hear unfolding stories from the women in this study.

We will be sharing truths about who the Lord says we are and our personal journeys to accepting and living out these truths.

To register for Becoming | The Unfolding of You click HERE


** All of the details are on the page and you are all set for the study to begin on January 6, 2015

Tell your friends!




Glenda Childers - It is a faith stretch that I can relate to, as well. I am on the teaching team for a study at our church in January. Whenever I accept a speaking engagement, it says I have faith to believe that God will give me something to say.

I am looking forward to your study. What a great group of women.


Sheila Atchley - You. Are. Beautiful. Love you, your blog, your shop (just ordered a shirt) and you will do GREAT. CANT WAIT to partake of your portion of Christ.

jodi - I just signed up for this and am very excited for it! I have been dealing with some very serious family issues and personal issues that are leaving me not really knowing who I am or why I have done what I did. I am looking forward to a new beginning and a renewed faith in the Lord.
So excited and I love your blog.

Sylvia Aquino - I keep trying to sign up for it but the link only takes me to a page that asks me to sign in for a jean oliver? Please help!

Lauren - Hi there! Where is the quilt from that is on grace’s bed? Would love to know. Its adorable! Beautiful home

Doreen Cox - The truth will always find you. Something I always have said to my children so hopefully they will never forget living with a lie can be overwhelming and in the end pointless.

2014 holiday house walk

To begin the 2014 holiday house walk from the beginning go directly to Jennifer Rizzo.

hello…welcome did you guess who the surprise house was?

it is lilypad cottage! To begin the walk from the beginning go directly to jennifer rizzo

i am super nervous and excited to have you over…crazy right?
i am most comfortable behind the scenes aka…wallflower this is risky and vulnerable but to be afraid and do it anyway
well that IS what living courageously means to me
besides this is just SO fun to be a part of sharing our unique personalities in our homes and give JOY and encouragement to others

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

come on in…would you like a cup of hot chocolate…coffee? i have christmas music playing and candied pecan & pumpkin pie candles burning my kids get told they smell like syrup or pie at school…i always laugh i may have a candle burning addiction…hmmmmm

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

i like to feel cocooned.  safe. i am learning that neutral, woodsy and words do that for me home is good..but to me..the heart is above all things that is what i love to talk about

decorating a home for Christmas is a lot of work and time so with that in mind we decorated our home to keep everything up all winter long when we take the tree down it doesn’t look overly christmas

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
 i believe laughter is medicine we do it a lot in our home Elf is one of our favorite christmas movies and it just made sense to use buddy’s famous words and what sums up winter more than SNUGGLING?

after eating a whole roll of tollhouse cookies right? throw the scale out until january 1!

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

i am so happy with the balsam hill flocked tree.  i wasn’t sure which to choose flocking or not but i think we made the perfect choice for our ornaments and the comfy feel we wanted

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

compared to the last two years our mantle is very subdued and we LOVE it

But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love I Corinthians 13:13

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 has been a year of overcoming, taking risks, battling the giant fear, forgiveness and new beginnings BIG changes.  big.  i want to remember every christmas this specific year God’s faithfulness provision and protection

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

isn’t it really about being present? i have to prACTice this this lindsay letters print is one of my favorite gifts from my brave friend lissa..xo

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

i LOVE my bedroom it brings me real joy to come in here.  i answer Etsy convo’s from here every night:) someday i will share why this wasn’t always the case it is a God-story

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

when i read the book atlas girl by emily weirenga it truly changed my heart i saved these words for our vow renewal STORY does that doesn’t it?  puts skin on words and goes out and heals people thank you emily for being so brave to share your story..xo

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging
2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

one of my favorite things is my drop cloth bedskirt that my mom made for me since it is custom she could make it long and full you just can’t find that in store bought bedskirts i

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

ok…aren’t these pillowcases from house seven darling? i couldn’t resist getting a pair for grace

2014 holiday house walk - house of belonging

it was lovely having you over!!  thank you for spending time with me and i pray that whatever your circumstances God’s LOVE finds you right where you are wrapping His arms around you tight and that you know KNOW know that YOU are not alone!…xo

click on over to unskinny boppy for me…i know you will just love her!


if you enjoyed these pictures of our home you might also enjoy these posts!

i am sharing a bit of my story with an amazing group of women in Becoming: a FREE study that begins THIS january!

becoming-the unfolding of you free online study

2013 christmas


2012 christmas

2012 house of belonging christmas home


carissa fox - I’m almost speechless. It’s more than an open door christmas house tour… you open the door to your heart too. Always. We love you too!

All the textures really grabbed me. “I want to do that” I kept thinking. :)
A cocoon… yes… a big warm hug.

I love every detail. You can see you’ve put lots of time & love into making it a special place for y’all. I know how busy you are… I pray you get to relax & enjoy your candles often. You deserve it.

I’ll be back I know… too much goodness to absorb all at once. :)

love you…

laura@top this top that - you have such a beautiful heart and it is reflected in everything that surrounds you in your beautiful holiday home. Happy Holidays!

Marty@A Stroll Thru Life - Oh my word, everything is so beautiful. I love your snowy tree and all the sparkle. Those little eyelash pillows in your daughters room gave me a huge smile. Gorgeous.

cassie - your home is so cozy! i especially love your daughter’s room! we are about to redo our daughter’s and she wants pink, gold, white, and black- i may have to DIY some pillows like that- SO fun!!!!!

Deb - tiff! your home is so cozy and beautiful…i too love every detail! happy holidays to you and your family!

Jessica - Love your house! And I love those “I love you forever” pillows! Did you make them or can they be purchased somewhere?

lemonademakinmama - Oh friend it’s lovely!!!

Laura - So pretty – I love all of the pretty textures! Merry Christmas!

Jennifer Rizzo - Tiffini, Thank you so much for sharing your home! I love your decorating style! Thank you for being in the tour!

Classic Christmas Tour - The Lilypad Cottage - […] sure to head to stop 17, House of Belonging! Or take the tour from the very beginning starting over at Jennifer Rizzo, you don’t want to […]

Kelly @ The Lily Pad Cottage - STUNNING, seriously love every little detail. Just gorgeous!

Welcome to Stop 18: The 2014 Holiday Housewalk - Unskinny Boppy - […] to my friend Jen Rizzo’s blog to see ALL the houses.   If you are joining me from Stop #17, The House of Belonging, then welcome y’all!  I am blown away by all the gorgeous decorating I’ve seen on the tour so […]

BARBARA N - Well I love it and need to smell those candles for myself, it is so pretty and bright Sweet T I am so proud of you. I can just imagine how your mom & children feel about all that you have overcame! You are joy grace and light Merry Christmas friend!
xo Barbara

Lori @ Dining Delight - No need to have worried about inviting us looky-loo’s into your home! Loved seeing all the beautiful décor and especially liked your bedroom. That Word wall art is so meaningful and makes such a statement. Thanks for the tour!

Kristin Salazar - Oh my, your home is just beautiful, thank you for opening it up to us! XO

paige - tiffini!!!!!!!
i am dying. this is such a beautiful, intentional, special special home!! i KNEW i’d love everything you did.
honestly. i am blown away.
i just love your heart & how you encourage me daily.
love you friend & merry merry christmas

Wendy - I am absolutely in love with your home and your heart. I loved every word you shared and every single part of your home. It’s gorgeous. Thank you. xox

Ashley - Absolutely stunning! Your home is beautiful- especially your bedroom. I am SO in love with that bed skirt- where did you get the material?? Id like to recruit my mom to help make one similar!

kim - Would love details on the I Love You Pillows too. Your whole home is lovely!

lissa - love ya babe! you blow my mind.

Alison- The Pink Tumbleweed - Thank you for sharing you beautiful home and even more beautiful words.

Jamie - Wow, I’m blown away. I’m in love with every detail. I just want to move in! I’m sharing on my FB page tomorrow ;)
Hugs, Jamie

Gloria - I have loved following your story, and your home has evolved into such a warm and inviting space. This is my absolute favorite Christmas tour so far this year. May the coming year bring more peace and love and forgiveness to you and yours.

Linsey @ Bravehearted Beauty - I want to hop right in all of these photos. I especially want to hold that comfort mug in my hands and sit LONG with you. Someday. You’ve created a beautiful, peaceful, cozy, meaningful home. An outpouring of your heart. Love you!

Patty Page - It is all beautiful, Tiffini and I can’t wait to hear more of your story. I’m signed up for “becoming”–I can’t wait!

Sarah Macklem - Tiffini- Thank you for sharing your beautiful home. Your daughter’s room is ADORABLE and those eyelash pillowcases are way too cute!! Sarah Macklem

tara - it’s beyond amazing. it’s breathtaking. every single inch of it.
i looked at your pictures and wanted to cry celebrating the Lord’s goodness.

your home and heart explode Jesus, and it is beautiful.

blown away. totally inspired. you’ve found your voice and your style. it sharpens me and encourages me!

Cherie - So cozy and petty! Where did you purchase your coffee mug?

Fotini Roman - Your home is just stunning! I am absolutely in love <3 Thank you for sharing!!

paige - i have come back here to visit you over & over…i love your heart and how your heart is evident in all you do <3
merry merry chirstmas friend

Kelly @ Eclectically Vintage - Stunning! That is the world’s coziest Christmas bedroom!

Jill @ Cora Anne Designs - It’s all just so calming and cozy, well done! And your daughter’s room is just precious!

Sarah Beals - This is gorgeous. I love that sign that says “Present over Perfect.” I think I’ll write that on a chalkboard to remind myself. I just posted my open house today, which seems rather silly after seeing all of your beauty!! :) Thanks for sharing your heart and home with me.

Creative Christmas Decorating Ideas - 12 Favorites - […] coziest Christmas bedroom award goes to The House of […]

Debra - I loved your style in the past and how you could put what seemed thrifted items to such pretty display and new fun life with color. I absolutely loved your fireplace creativity of your holidays past in 2012 and 2013. I see you’ve changed you lifestyle/look to ikea and little touches of Anthro… <3 Pretty.. pretty. I absolutely love those stores too. I have to say I am so taken the most with your wooden wings and Demdaco nativity display this year. I love it Tiff. Simply beautiful. Have a blessed and relaxed (if you can) Christmas with your family. May you have good health in 2015. What a wonderful share. P. S. I love those "comfort" embossed mugs too. Do tell the source? :)

Kelley - Can you tell me where you got your trellis rug and your l o v e letters?

Lisa@2perfectiondecor - wow wow wow.. Your home is decorated and styled so beautifully.. I love everything. And your signs are just gorgeous!! I just started following you on bloglovin.

Happy Holidays!

Alice W. - Oh my goodness this is my kind of heaven on earth! LOVE your home! Those fur stockings…swoon! And I adore those pillowcases. OH and your mantel from 2012 has always been a favorite of mine. I pinned it long before I knew of your blog. Definitely one of my all time favorite Christmas inspirations!

Danielle - Very pretty and soft. x

Cecilia - Your home is just beautiful! I love how serene and cozy it all looks. I can feel His peace radiating from your words. I’m a new follower. Love your blog.


Dagmar Obert - Kelly,

Thank you for sharing your heart in this post and a sense of belonging runs through the whole post. Love your neutrals and all the special touches. Your Balsam Hill tree is wonderful with all the neutrals and keeps your room from looking so stark if the tree were a green one. The poinsettias on the tee caught my eye right away as I knew it was an uncharastic color of one, but not the typical color. So fun!

Mary jo - Does your mom sell those beautiful bed skirts?

3 ingredient peanut butter cookies

easy & delicious 3 ingredient peanut butter cookies

i just wanted to pop in here to share an easy recipe with you that i have made the last two weekends
with only 3 ingredients!

3 ingredient peanut butter cookie recipe

1/2 C. creamy peanut butter

3.4 oz package instant vanilla pudding mix

1 large egg

4 TB sugar ( to roll the balls in )


1.  preheat oven to 350 degrees and line baking sheet with parchment paper

2.  put peanut butter, pudding mix and egg into a medium mixing bowl.  stir until well combined.  with a medium

cookie scoop ( i just used a spoon ) form a ball and place into a bowl of sugar and roll it around.  place on cookie sheet about

an inch apart.  i make the little tic tac toe mark on top with a fork before i baked mine:)  bake for 12-15 minutes before removing.

makes about 9 servings  ( i triple this recipe )


on sundays i have been making a big pot of homemade chicken and noodles served over hot mashed potatoes

and heat up a crusty loaf of bread

and serve the cookies as dessert

it is called carb overload but it is a cozy and warm family meal that puts smiles on their faces

i hope it puts a smile on your families faces too!




Lemonade Makin Mama - I do believe I need this in my life. You are so cool.

Michelle - What a heavenly looking space. Would you please give me the source of your cute little bowls with the marshmallows and such? Thank you for sharing.

we chose an artificial tree this year!

i grew up with real christmas trees and i will always love them.

there is nothing like the nostalgia of a real tree to remind me of my childhood.

with last years incessant vacuuming up pine needles from our lab bella’s tail swooshing past the tree didn’t help
and watering!  oh my, i am so thankful i don’t have to do any of that this year!

balsam hill tree

but when i was able to receive a balsam hill artificial tree i was eager to see if it was really as awesome as i’d heard

it arrived beautifully packaged wrapped in ribbon.  much like a fine piece of china.

putting it up was super easy and the lighting is amazing how it runs down the center nipping in the bud the fighting
of plugging in lots of plugs

it evoked lots of ohh’s and ahh’s from the kids and i.

the year before was an artificial tree and i honestly have to say that if i were to buy another artificial tree i
would definitely buy a balsam hill.  you won’t waste your money AND you will have a keepsake to hand down to your children!

last year we went with the live tree

2013 LOVE christmas mantle with a live tree

the year before an artificial tree

2012 rustic message christmas mantle with artificial tree

and we CAN’T WAIT to share our balsam hill tree with you this year…see you soon!




kc obrien - Hi Tiffani!

I can’t wait to see what you come up with this year! the last couple were adorable;) You have such a great sense of style! thanks for the inspo!

I was wandering if you ever received an email from me? I had sent one through your blog and I’m afraid it’s just not going through..??? Maybe I should try just sending it through my gmail…

Have a great day!
xo, kc

Janet - I am sure your tree will be beautiful. We are not sure what kind of tree we are putting up yet. I really do not want a big tree. I would prefer more of a Charlie brown Christmas tree.

Balsam Hill has beautiful items but most are not in my price range.

Have a beautiful day!!

Lemonade Makin Mama - I keep hearing about these trees!!! We went artificial last year too… we just had to for my sanity. Gosh I miss you. Playing catch up with your blog right now. So fun.

Sarah - Hi! Can you tell me where you got the white and red stockings? They are EXACTLY the type of stocking I’m looking for!